I understand that writers have to inform listeners but isn’t it irritating when Pat refers to Helen’s Dad as Tony “Helen. Is Tony in the poly tunnels polishing his dibber?”
This has become increasingly odd when Pat, Tony et al refer to Rob as Rob. Like many listeners, our family has had to deal with a “Rob” and we now refer to my wifes ex husband as “The Wanker”. Perhaps Helen will learn to do this as a coping mechanism, as she becomes more able to deal with his behaviour.