Silvergirl, your final paragraph is particularly interesting. It prompted the remark, “I’ve never thought of it like that … !” Not that I necessarily agree – but I hadn’t thought about this aspect of the storyline at all. To me it’s just a situation where the writers are doing what they do and we’re interpreting it as best we can – like most forms of “art”! (When you think of the many ways we analyse paintings, poetry and so on – can all those messages and subtexts really have been in the mind of the creator?! It’s all so subjective.) I’ve simply assumed that child characters are depicted pretty broadly – either well-behaved, badly behaved, clever, spoiled, silent or all of the above.
I’d be surprised if the writers’ intentions were half as sophisticated and nuanced as the way we read these stories.